Dear L. You are utterly and completely right. I am very ashamed at my thoughtless stupidity and careless words. I was talking about a HUMAN BEING. I was talking about a smart, funny, decent, nice, intelligent, creative, wonderful human that I really liked, and I said things that were thoughtless and cruel and mean and the worst part is I didn’t even mean them.
I’m glad you called me on this and I will remove it immediately and will stop being such an idiot. It was not my intention to hurt you or your loved one but I did because I did not think. I did not think it would ever matter because I thought nobody knew who I was and nobody would know anyone I talked about and no one would be hurt. I thought I could write a blog where I could talk about some of the things I was thinking and feeling and if it was anonymous that I didn’t need to be careful or to think about what I said or make sure I really meant it. That was really not thinking.
I was childish. I said things flippantly that you and I both know are untrue and were just totally wrong. I’m very sorry. I really don’t know what else to say. I’m ashamed of myself. Thank you for calling me on it.