The Hobbyist has one of my favorite blogs for the sheer interest and variety of his/her posts, but this one I wanted to share. We talk a LOT about oxytocin in poly circles and it’s fun to poke at that a bit and see a more complex picture of what causes or may cause bonding. Besides, you have to love an article that suggests men need more cuddles than women and uses the phrase “exercising your love muscle”. I’m gonna schedule some time for kissing, ear and nipple sucking, eye-gazing, and relaxing touch with those I adore. Ahh.. bonding.