What to ask Traveler?

Traveler and I will finally record a podcast we planned long ago. The podcast is coming back retooled!

What would you like to ask Traveler? He will reserve the right not to answer anything he doesn’t want to, so feel free to ask anything at all.

That’s right! Traveler finally speaks. Help me know what to ask him.


If it helps bring up questions… He has been open for 14 or so years, and in love with two women for 3 years, and previously for a couple of years. He’s had three open loving committed relations at a time. He is friendly with the men his wife and I date. He’s very rarely jealous. And he’s hardly ever sick at sea. (Kidding)

Also, interestingly, both his wife and I are poly bloggers, and he does not identify as poly though he and Quinkygirl are very much in love and together nearly 15 years and he says he’s madly in love with me and we’ve been together 2 years and 8 months. His wife and girlfriend are very very close and love each other. He’s incredibly loving, great in bed, and a deeply good confidant. Curious? Ask stuff!


  1. 1. As a man, do you find communication hard in a poly situation? Do you feel guilty or trepidatious about broaching some subjects?

    2. My partner feels like he is somehow betraying me when he wants to shag someone. Did you ever feel this way and what kind of things helped you move past it if you did?

    3. If you could explain your life in a sentence, how would you describe it?

    4. Do you find rules and regulations on your relationships hurts or hinders you in any way? Do you find it annoying? Helpful? Irrelevant?

    And that’s a few off the top of my head. Good luck 🙂


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