Most of the time Peaches and I being friends works in Traveler’s favor. We both love him and we genuinely like each other and spend a lot of time talking and doing stuff. It’s nice for him because we like to all go to breakfast together, or hang out, and often she and I will work out schedules for our dates. Easy peasy. He’s really honest and has nothing to fear by us talking. We’ve both checked in with him multiple times about it…if he’s okay with us becoming close, talking, hanging. He is.
And yesterday it kinda backfired. Peaches and I were supposed to go to a concert and it fell apart. She was bummed about that and other things and just wanted to go home alone. I tried to talk her into doing something else, but she was didn’t want to. I left her to her bath plans.
I texted Traveler who’d asked earlier in the week if I was able to hang on Wednesday and told him I was free after all because the concert got cancelled, and Peaches made other plans, and would he like to meet for dinner or WoW? He texted back that it sucked our concert was cancelled.
A while later I texted back and asked “So, do you wanna meet and eat or wanna WoW then?”. He didn’t answer. Peaches was feeling a little better and began chatting and I added that Peaches was free after all if he’d like to invite her. Traveler was at his chiropracter and not answering, which is understandable, and then Peaches says Traveler just asked her out for a beer, so where are we meeting?
What? Um. Traveler wasn’t answering my texts and then he asks her out for a beer? Wtf? Continue reading