It's is the Point

Boss and I hit the “Bondage is the Point” party at the center.  This includes frank talk of sex and kink.  😉

First.. a tiny aside.. happy happy sigh.  Traveler had a little unexpected free time tonight and asked if I’d like to do dinner and WoW.  Yes please.  It was a quiet little night and I loved it.  I always love it.  I said to Quinky Girl the other day (and sounded like a greeting card) that the most precious thing we give each other is time.  I revel in it.  I’m so grateful.  I’m so fucking happy.  I could not be more grateful.  Seriously.  Getting to see more of Cleveland, and more of Traveler and having a sexy sexy date with Boss!?!?  I’m just gushing over here.  Gushing.  See what I did there?

WoW woodsI just got home from Traveler’s and I’m sated and languid.  We talked and laughed over dinner at our favourite place, played our game, snuggled and called it a night and I couldn’t be happier if we’d had the most epic date ever.  I just love being with him.  I loved working in his yard this past weekend and talking while we did dishes and made dinner.  I loved holding him and sleeping tangled in a ball.  I loved playing WoW.  I loved being overcome with passion.  I love everything we do.  Okay.. okay.. enough of that.  I’m sorry.  I’m just so fucking happy.  I’m reluctant to repeat this gushiness here with Cleveland, but it is there too.  I fall deeper deeper deeper….

Now, on to the promised kinky fun.  🙂

Boss and I had missed seeing each other on a couple of occasions and I’d been looking forward to our date.  The party that night was the “Bondage is the Point” party.  The description said “no impact” and talked about bondage kinda being the point.  Neither Boss nor I are super bondage people (though as it turns out he is actually very good at it).  You gotta love that he’s that good at his weak point.   Continue reading


Boss and I hit the Myself! party at the kink club again this past weekend.  If it’s not obvious, this one is gonna have some explicit sex.  😉 APTOPIX Summer StormThe Myself! party is a masturbation friendly sex and bdsm party.  Pretty much anything the club allows is allowed, and all the areas are open for watching and playing.  So, we marked another introduction off of my bucket list.  Earlier that night I was thinking “why did I schedule a date for the night after I moved!?!?!”.  I was exhausted.  I’d spent all of Saturday moving and unpacking until about 9pm.  Then I’d spent all of Sunday unpacking and getting some items from my ex-husband’s house.  Everything was sore.  Even my fingers hurt.  I wanted to cancel because I could not imagine having the energy to be sexy, but I decided to go, knowing I’d have a great time if I went. Funny how some sexy energy can make you rally.  😀 Continue reading

The Purple People Pleaser

It’s time for a sexier, or at least more informative about sexy pursuits, post.  How about the Violet wand?  Cleveland is really cute when he blushes, and I think this one might make him blush.  In fact, it might make him…purple.  He’s a kinky boy.  He’s a sweet, funny, thoughtful, interesting, nerdy, sexy, curious kinky boy.  Halleluiah!

He’s a boy with a lot of toys.  He has a working Commodore 64.  He has a gun store worth of ammo and reloading stuff.  He has a ham radio and precision torque devices.  He collects antique slide rules and fountain pens and inks.  Yeah, he’s that guy.  So, should it surprise me that he also has a good selection of kinky kinky fun time things?  Heh.  He processes his own hemp rope for bondage.  Hell to the yeah!  Now do you see why I love fucking nerds?  The man researches and explores.  He is not a lazy lover.  Oh man.. his skilled mouth alone.  yes.  yes.  oh yes.  We are just starting to explore and I’m so enthralled.  Vanilla sex with him is really fun, but how much cooler is it that we can also share our other varied interests and a good deal of kink.

One of his many sexual talents is his use of the magic wand.  I’ve long had an interest in exploring electrical play.  It’s just cool.  I like electricity and I knew enough to know that it’s got a range of sensation possibilities.  (I was once a biomedical engineer, remember?).  It can be warm and languid, sharp, zappy, stingy, microscopically thuddy, exciting (as in excites the muscles and nerves and receptors) and tingly.  I’d never played with electricity sexually though, beyond a short scene involving a few seconds with a little shocker.  I have to admit I was pretty thrilled when the super sexy and sweet guy I was crushing on told me he has a violet wand amongst his plethora of toys. Continue reading