I’ve been looking on OKC a little more. I’m not really looking to date much at this point, but I guess I’m getting a little curious. I’ve been perusing the ladies, and looking at a few guys with really specific interests (kink). I’m not really looking to date so very much as maybe find a playfriend. In a perfect world, well.. I’d find a kinky person or a bi woman to have fun times with, but I’m open to whatever and not searching too damn hard.
If I add any pics or answer any questions I kinda “wake up” my profile and get messages, so I’m not doing that. But I have actually logged in more lately so that starts a trickle. So far I found one woman I wanted to meet who wanted me to fuck her boyfriend and pretended she was interested in me when she isn’t. I’ve also exchanged messages with dudes who turned out to be married and thought me being open meant I’d happily help them cheat on their wives. I think they didn’t understand open or poly. I usually just don’t engage or respond to such messages. One guy sent me two copies of the exact same long generic message a few weeks apart. I don’t know why they don’t use a spreadsheet or something to let them know who they’ve spammed already. I replied that he’d already sent me that message and that I wouldn’t be answering cut and paste messages that dudes sent out to every chick, looking to see what sticks.
He replied that he knew I’d already received his message and that he isn’t a cutter and paster, but we were such a good match he had to try. Yeah. Right. And we were a terrible match. I say a few times in my profile that honesty is important to me and I don’t date anyone cheating on anyone in any way. I have no idea why I engaged either.